Where your life stands here on earth, it is like noon in your Life.
Because none of us have many more years to live, optimistically we are in mid life or 2nd half of life and we can't take along anything when we go.
Spend the money that should be spent, enjoy what should be enjoyed, donate what you are able to donate, but don't leave all / much to your children or grandchildren, for you don't want them to become parasites who may be waiting for the day you will die!
Don't worry about what will happen after we are gone, because when we return to dust, we will feel nothing about praises or criticisms. The time to enjoy the worldly life and your hard earned wealth will be over!
Don't worry too much about your children, for children will have their own destiny & should find their own way.
Don't be your children's slave. Care for them, love them, give them gifts, but also enjoy your moments. Enjoy your money while you can.
Life should have more to it than working from the cradle to the grave!
40+ like you, don't trade in your health for wealth by working yourself to an early grave anymore. Because, your money may not be able to buy your health...
When to stop making money?
Or how much is enough million, ten million...???
Out of thousand hectares of good farm land, you can consume only three quarts (of rice) daily; Out of a thousand mansions, you only need eight square meters of space to rest at night.
One day passes without happiness, you will lose one day.
Above all, learn to cherish the goodness around you. Be with your friends, they all make you feel 'YOUNG' and 'WANTED'.
Stress means the gap between expectations & reality. More the gap, more the stress. Expect nothing & accept everything.
Don't believe in Tit for Tat because we can't bite a dog who has bitten us. So don't spoil your level just to teach others.
Learn to 'LET GO' because you cannot have the next breath until you let go the existing one.